Marrying A Wrong person can be draining

Previously

…The path ahead would be difficult, the conversation with Eleanor undoubtedly painful. But he knew, with a certainty that settled deep within his bones, that he could not proceed down the path he had been on. The dream of a peaceful, stable marriage, a sanctuary of shared understanding and unwavering trust, was far too precious to sacrifice at the altar of a fleeting attraction and a charming facade. He would choose wisdom. He would choose peace. He would choose himself. He would walk away from the gilded cage, not because he didn't love the bird, but because he realized the cage itself was built on a foundation of sand. And he deserved a home built on solid rock.